Most people don’t know what a sex educator is.
Most thought a sex educator only teaches safe sex and to avoid pregnancy.
That’s a big part of it. However, another main part is to teach people how to treat and respect each other.
Our goal is to help people, todevelop a happier/safer relationship.
At my school in America we actually had a really good sex education program.
It started when I was about 12 years old
and we had it every year for about a week in the school year until high school.
During the week of sex education we mostly learned how to have safe sex
and how to prevent pregnancy, what menstrual cycles are like.
This is a unique program within the U.S. There’s still many people who disagree with teaching children about sex education.
I lived in China and Taiwan for about a year and a half,
From living there and talking to people, I’ve definitely realized that mainland China is less open than Taiwan. Both have a problem in the sense that there’s not a lot of sex education.
Once I asked my biology teacher where the baby came from. Then
My biology teacher said:
“Your parents built a Bifrost then you just came to Earth like Thor did.”
Sex education? Should be in my Junior high school.
There’s that one chapter in the textbook of health course.
Perhaps only 1 or 2 pages, and teachers tend to skip that part.
A lot of people ask me what to do when their boyfriends or girlfriends pressure them to have sex?
This is a big problem because your body is your body and whenever you choose to have sex is ok.
And if your partner can’t accept that, I don’t think they truly appreciate you and your choices, they aren’t respecting your boundaries or your values.
Another question I get asked a lot is from Taiwanese women.
Whether or not foreign men are serious when they ask them out.
I think that there are a lot of cultural differences in China and America foreign men especially think that it’s ok to just approach women causally
and they only really expect sex.
That being said, there are plenty of men who don’t expect sex do want to have a true genuine relationship with you and
My advice would be to just get to know them first and ask them what they want and what they see happening in the relationship and if it doesn’t match up with you want
Then it’s probably not a good match.
The most important thing I teach is that you have to believe in yourself.
If you feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
Don’t give up your principles because of your relationship.
If it’s really love, then it will feel like love. You will feel loved.